Maternity Fashion

Maternity fashion in our country has often been visualized as over-sized old cloths or clothes of hubby with a scarf, dupatta covering baby bump. Thankfully, our generation is open to change and is willing to modernize the pregnant figure of women.

When I got pregnant, my first thought was to stay stylish (at least as much I think, I am). Improvise to look elegant as well as being modern. I always wanted to cherish my baby. I also think, staying stylish helped me with my morning sickness thing (:-P)

Here are few tips which other women, who are expecting or would soon be expecting, can use to stay stylish during their maternity time :
1. Wear something in which "You" feel you are confident.
2. Clothes must be breathable
3. Add one favourite piece of your accessory to alter the look of same cloth
4. Use Black color in your wardrobe.(Since you can't help putting up weight during pregnancy, Black helps in concealing)
5. Layer it up. Yes, layering can make you look stylish as well make you look plump in a gud way
6. Team your clothes with some scarves. It can put a zip on the lips of some "typical aunties" who still believe hiding is your way to baby. And you still look stylish
7. Add some dash of bright color to pop up your mood.
8. If you love makeup, keep doing it. I'm sure your baby will feel happy to have a pretty, sexy mom when you take a peek in mirror !

These are just few tips which I followed. You can make different permutations and combinations to have a fashion filled maternity.

Perfect Dream

First look and bowled over 
wishing I never met you here  
Sometimes destiny make me wonder what's in store
Why we met at all when there was nothing to it more

Sun kissed sky and I think of you
In my sleep when I dream, I dream my life with you
Any day, any moment, any love story
and the spark in my eyes, beat in my heart says what if it was our story

I wish telepathy was for real
I wish my dream was for real
I wish you existed for real
I wish so many things
And yet all those things is "you"

When you leaned to kiss,
When you extended your hand,
When you gave that stern look
The care for me took its stand

I dream of  open fields
Weekend getaway with you
Each day life could be so new
You playing the song in my heart
As if we were never ever apart

The way you speak
the way you scold
as if you know, who exactly I'm
as if you know, how to hold

With you, things feel so right
With you, i feel important
with you, i feel wanted
As If, a seedling is just planted

Women's Day - Do we even deserve to celebrate this day ?

Today, m writing blog after a very long time. I have received so many mails wishing women's day and I kept thinking do we really cherish the women's day or women at all ?

Agreed, girl child are better taken care of in present days but image of a grown-up girl is more or less the same.In our culture, women are treated as sacrificing soul. It is not uncommon to find the mothers, fathers, husband , the so-called wiser and experienced people offering the advice of "sacrificing for the sake of family" to women.For that matter, advices are showered when she wants to do something of her interest and not of the husband, in-laws, family or society.And if she denies or argues, she is branded ill-cultured, a wrong-match in family or family's ill-fate.At times she is remarked every now and then.

Times have changed, so has society, but this custom trampling over women simply doesn't seem to change.Why is it always sacrifice of a woman, the only way to build a happy home?

why is newly wedded girl in home is suppose to chose between logically right or her belongingness to new home?

Why is it always this girl who is threatened to be thrown out of home if her mind and heart fails to believe the facts given by new family.

Does any one realize how vulnerable this woman is? How weak does she feel inside?

She is the one who has left her home behind and for what - to forget who she is , to live and die for this new family ?

This whole process of victimizing women is sanctified in the name of home-maker.She is a daughter,she is a sister,a wife, a daughter-in-law, a sister-in-law,a mother....anything but a woman.

Things really need to be polished. Else all these days are just a way to ensure increased number of sales of greeting and feminine gifts or at max to have dine out.

If Indian society really mean it then it needs to prove it .

My module and overnite working....

sometimes overwork is fun and had it all on 30 july 2007,wen i worked overnite so as to make homepage live.i kept fast on Monday...ma first Monday fast.. then we worled from 10 am monday morning to tues evening .. whole team co-ordinated so well....abhinav(ma TL),nachi,bhaskar,alok,rachna....and but ofcourse aman... we both kept awake whole nite to get rid of that alignment mess that took a gaint 13 hrs to get fixed....